Don't automatically write me off with the title. I just want to make it known that I am completely attracted to married men. However, the attraction stops right there and remains just that. Or maybe it's not attraction at all and just admiration.
Sadly, there are women that choose to exclusively date married men and I don't condone that practice. I have no clue why they feel they should be a home wrecker and have an affair with a man that has taken the ultimate commitment. But, I think the fact that the man has made that commitment is why she may be attracted to him.
A married man to me screams decisive, full of conviction, faithful, committed, expressive and loving. I know that can all change at the drop of a hat and being married does not necessarily make someone faithful, but it's what I'd like to believe.
Being single I have encountered men that don't even want to commit to a relationship. So when I'm on the train and I see that man with the kids and the ring I kind of stare because he's sexy to me. And I know I want that one day but the attention I get from men, I know they are just seeking quick thrills. Even women have become so liberated sexually that they put the sex before companionship.
Do men that seek and value relationships in general that are my age still exist? Or maybe I'm destined to marry some guy that's in his 30's that's ready to settle down? Or could it just be that I am too young and not in the right place to even consider wanting to be in a serious committed relationship? who knows...
But for now, I'm gonna still sneak a peek at those sexy married 30 somethings.. of course only when they're alone ;)
Morosely Me
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Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Monday, April 11, 2011
Double Standards pt. 2
As of late twitter has been pissing me the hell off. I always see these men I follow boasting, bragging, and bagging on women. Being a woman is like a double edged sword. We are constantly worried about our appearances not only to appease ourselves but to look good for men too (whether we'd like to admit it or not). I'm not ashamed to admit it because attention of the opposite sex and ultimately, sex is a basic need.
So, being a woman, our physique is what attracts men. The breast, hips, lips, butt, waist, and thighs are important to men because these are our indicators of "fertility". Of course that doesn't mean that a man wants to make babies with every woman with a nice waist to ass ratio, but it is one of the 1st things most men look for.
However, we all know that all women are not shaped like Rihanna, Esther Baxter, or Rosa Acosta and that's fine! My problem is that every man thinks that they look like Adonis. How can a man have the audacity to criticize my love handles when he looks like he's about 7 months pregnant?
Women definitely have standards too. So if a man says he only dates women that are a specific size and he has a 2 inch hard on.. we have a problem! I swear that if the tables were turned and all men had to wear banana hammocks, women would not be choosing majority of these shit talkers.
Men act like they have gold in their pants, but there is a thin line between confident and cocky. I just wish that most men would look in the mirror before they criticize a woman because of the way she looks because I guarantee that there are plenty women that don't find you attractive either.
end rant <3
So, being a woman, our physique is what attracts men. The breast, hips, lips, butt, waist, and thighs are important to men because these are our indicators of "fertility". Of course that doesn't mean that a man wants to make babies with every woman with a nice waist to ass ratio, but it is one of the 1st things most men look for.
However, we all know that all women are not shaped like Rihanna, Esther Baxter, or Rosa Acosta and that's fine! My problem is that every man thinks that they look like Adonis. How can a man have the audacity to criticize my love handles when he looks like he's about 7 months pregnant?
Women definitely have standards too. So if a man says he only dates women that are a specific size and he has a 2 inch hard on.. we have a problem! I swear that if the tables were turned and all men had to wear banana hammocks, women would not be choosing majority of these shit talkers.
Men act like they have gold in their pants, but there is a thin line between confident and cocky. I just wish that most men would look in the mirror before they criticize a woman because of the way she looks because I guarantee that there are plenty women that don't find you attractive either.
end rant <3
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